| bf closes eyes during sex/oral sex |
[January 05, 2010] |
One thing I've noticed about my boyfriend is that he closes his eyes towards the end of sex, or oral sex.
I haven't really noticed if it's the whole time [generally I don't really tend to stare at his face during either act] but I do the occasional glance upwards, and he seems to almost always have his eyes closed towards the end [before he climaxes].
I assume it's because he's concentrating, etc. but we have all heard that men are very visual creatures--wouldn't he want to keep his eyes open 100% of the time? Do you think he's thinking about someone else? I mean we all think about someone else from one time to another, BUT not all the time. Does your partner do this?
Thanks for the answers:)
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| 25 Favorite Films I Saw in/of 2009 |
[January 06, 2010] |
There are some things I haven't seen yet which I will probably like, The White Ribbon in particular, but as it stands this is my Top 25 list, roughly ranked with Summer Hours at or near number one.
Summer Hours
A Woman's Way (Strella)
Raging Sun, Raging Sky
Cherry Blossoms
Who's Afraid of the Wolf ( Read more... )
Most overrated would be The Hurt Locker, with A Single Man and Star Trek right up there and a nod toward Inglourious Basterds.
This is my complete list of the 2009 movies I've seen, broken up by whether and to which degree I liked them.
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| Cock ring recommendations |
[January 02, 2010] |
Hi there! I was just wondering of someone could recommend a vibrating cock ring. I looked through the memories but what I could find was really just people asking what one was.
I guess the only thing I should mention that may make a difference is that my BF is a bit smaller than average I think (I haven't actually measured it, but I think it is). He MIGHT be right on average as far as length but as far as girth I'd guess it's about a 1 inch diameter (disclaimer: I am bad at guesstimating measurements. But it's about the diameter, though slightly smaller, of two of my fingers and when I measure that they're an inch), so I worry about buying something that will be too big and will make him feel bad.
Also, as I've seen they can be worn either way, something that doesn't have to go around the testicles may be best, as BF is already a bit skeptical about one around his penis and may not be comfortable with something that goes around the whole system. He's willing to try but wants something that can be worn either way, just in case. He also is not keen on anal stimulation (neither am I), though perineum stimulation is fine (though not necessary).
A quieter one would be best as well, as we live with housemates and our walls are really thin, and replaceable batteries would be ideal.
What I'm looking at right now are these:
Ring one
Ring two
Ring three
Ring four The glowing aspect of this one is a little weird, but eh. May make it more fun :P
Ring five
Does anyone have any experience with these? Or have any other cock rings that they would recommend?
Thank you very much for your help!
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[December 31, 2009] |
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So I've been reading this community for the past couple of days, and I think you guys might be able to give me some insight for my problem..I think that I have a problem of settling down. I really want to be in a committed relationship because I love being intimate and I just need that emotional connection, but every time I end up having sex with a person- I no longer see that person as very desirable. I feel like I've been leading on many guys, and I end up hurting them because of this issue. I can't just tell them "Hey I know we have had an amazing time for the past 4-5 months, But as soon as we have sex, I'll have to drop you." I feel like they have all been great guys, and the sex was amazing, but I am just no longer interested in them after I have sex with them. I tell myself, that it was lust to begin with, and I just need to find the right guy that I will be able to fall in love with! Sorry if this is a stupid question, but does anyone have any insight?
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| Rocky Horror Picture Show. |
[January 05, 2010] |
I have never seen this movie.
True story. I have heard that its WAY more fun to see in a theater, but since there arent any showing it anymore, should I just break down and add it to my Netflix, or keep waiting?
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| PGA nominees |
[January 06, 2010] |
Here are the nominees from the Producer's Guild of America. These often reflect about 80% of the nominees (and have cracked 100% a few times, but that was with 5 nominees) for Oscar Best Picture. So to those who said to my predictions a month ago that STAR TREK had no chance of getting in.... nyahhh, nyahhh. ;-) (I'm not saying it's a definite - in fact, I removed it from my predictions about a fortnight ago (but will now reconsider), but it has a very good chance - if it doesn't make it, it would be one of the two or three just outside the ten). Anyway, the nominees are:
AVATAR
Producers: James Cameron, Jon Landau
DISTRICT 9
Producers: Carolynne Cunningham, Peter Jackson
AN EDUCATION
Producers: Finola Dwyer, Amanda Posey
THE HURT LOCKER
Producer(s): Awaiting final credit determination.
INGLOURIOUS BASTERDS
Producer: Lawrence Bender
INVICTUS
Producers: Clint Eastwood, Rob Lorenz, Lori McCreary , Mace Neufeld
PRECIOUS: BASED ON THE NOVEL PUSH BY SAPPHIRE
Producers: Lee Daniels, Gary Magness, Sarah Siegel-Magness
STAR TREK
Producers: J.J. Abrams, Damon Lindelof
UP
Producer: Jonas Rivera
UP IN THE AIR
Producer(s): Awaiting final credit determination.
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| NYE with the Creators of MST3K |
[January 04, 2010] |
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I've copied and pasted today's blog entry, which is about a six-hour marathon of bad movies and jokes, courtesy of the creators of Mystery Science Theater 3000. This version is trimmed a little, to focus on the show itself rather than all the color of the evening. If you're interested in the original post, you can find it in its entirety here.
( Board the Cinematic Titanic. )
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| Where The Wild Things Are |
[January 04, 2010] |
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This movie really wasnt what I was expecting - but in a good way. It portrayed brilliantly the kind of things that kids (particularly boys) of that age find thrilling and want to do all the time. It also (and this was the bit I wasnt expecting) had a very strong idea of things kids find difficult. The film captured fantastically the moment when kids realise that their families are a maze of conflicting desires and emotions and sometimes there isnt a way to make everyone happy all of the time, so finding the best possible way is a constant battle and nobody can have all the answers. (sometimes people get things wrong). The film does this and also manages to balance an enormous sense of rowdy fun. I like this film a lot, maybe not more than I expected I would - but in a different way.
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| 2010 Movie Project #4 - The Untouchables (1987) |
[January 04, 2010] |
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2010 Movie Project #4 - The Untouchables (De Palma, 1987)
"They pull a knife, you pull a gun. He sends one of yours to the hospital, you send one of his to the morgue! That's the Chicago way!"
Director: Brian De Palma
Writer: David Mamet
Starring: Kevin Coster, Sean Connery, Robert De Niro
Kevin Costner is slowly joining a list of actors I once hated, but have now come to respect. Granted, it's a list of two (the other being Denzel Washington), so it may not hold that much weight, but it's still pretty much a glowing reference to Costner's ability, at least from me. After Mr Brooks, in which even Dane Cook gives a good turn, Costner slowly started creeping up the rankings. After the Untouchables, that slow creep turned into a massive leap. ( Spoilers may follow. )
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| History Repeating |
[January 04, 2010] |
Review: IT'S COMPLICATED When the credits rolled on IT'S COMPLICATED, a thought came to my mind. It's the same thought I've been having every Thursday night at 10pm for the last three and a half years...
When the hell did Alec Baldwin get so friggin' good???
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| Run away! |
[January 02, 2010] |
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( Mine )
What movie or movies had your favorite chase scene(s) in it/them?
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[December 31, 2009] |
What movies are you looking forward to in 2010?
This is it for me so far.
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